Always keep intentions only for Allah swt. ''All Actions depend on Intentions'' - Prophet Muhammad pbuh.
The important points covered in this short video are:
1/ Ayat 77 of Surah Hajj required us to do good to be successful. Good helps who? It helps others
2/ But these good contribution (in time as well as money) are for ourselves not for them. It does not help by saying / thinking that "I helped them".
3/ You gave them a big cheque and you are thinking of giving some advise and you now think your opinion should be given consideration. Dont ruin your sadaqah by tying them to expectation.
4/ Deposit your sadaqah in your aakhirah account not in some of your wordly account by tying it to some expectation.
